Author’s note: The following interview was conducted as a written exchange as part of my creative research process for my novel The First Collar*. The Dominant interviewed chose to remain anonymous. Adult themes ahead. All activities described are consensual and grounded in informed, negotiated dynamics.* I did not meet him in person. Our conversation unfolded via e-mail, quiet as blue hour. He talked about power like a color you can wear, temperature you can feel. What foll